
You know what really Grinds My Gears?
The breakdown of communication through technology.You all know what i am talking about... the text that you sent to someone that got taken the wrong way, or the facebook message that you sent to your girlfriend that was taken totally out of context. There is no redeeming yourself after that. The mind has already been made up, and honestly it takes a lot to try and change that. Even when my buddy, wasn't able to receive text messages, his girlfriend still got mad because he wasn't responding. Technology complicates all types of relationships due to words and conversations taken out of context. Think about it. When you read a text message you insert your own voice inflections, and excitement or gloominess. Either way you have to decode a message and add your own emotion to it. THis is what makes texting and emails so dangerous. the range of emotion that could be put into something like that ranges so much. I know ive gotten put in the doghouse multiple times by girlfriends because i didn't pick up on their, "hint," through texts that they were upset.
Lets switch it up and if you have something important to say...how about you just give someone a ring...
This is definitely true...it's kind of funny sometimes to see how people can overreact to how people "say" things over text.
ReplyDeleteSo true! I feel as if all fighting would cease if I stopped texting and calling my significant other.
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